Author: Inquisitive Society

I’m a 34-year-old guy with a baby face, and I usually prefer meeting other solo travelers around my age or younger in a natural way. In my past solo adventures, I’ve connected with fellow travelers in their late 20s or early 30s, spending quality time together. During my recent trip to Nepal, I embarked on a six-day trek in the mountains and had some unexpected encounters.

On the first day of the trek, I met a woman from Germany in her late 40s. We hit it off instantly and engaged in endless conversations. However, our paths diverged on the third day due to different itineraries, but the memories of our conversations lingered.

Following that, I found myself sharing a room with two Russian men in their 70s, not exactly my preferred roommates by choice. Despite the language barrier, we managed to have a fun and enjoyable interaction before they departed the next morning.

Upon returning to the city, a seemingly mundane moment at a coffee shop turned into a memorable encounter. While asking the cashier for directions, I unknowingly triggered a conversation with a woman from Australia in her 60s who was standing behind me. What started as a simple exchange quickly evolved into a two-hour conversation that left a lasting impression on me.

These interactions with individuals significantly older than me opened my eyes to a new perspective. I realized the importance of going with the flow and being open to engaging with people of all age groups. It taught me that being a good conversationalist and creating connections in one-on-one situations transcend age barriers.

In the end, these unexpected encounters enriched my journey and highlighted the beauty of human connections that transcend age and background. It’s moments like these that remind me of the value in stepping out of my comfort zone and embracing the opportunities for meaningful interactions with people from all walks of life.

I’ve been living the digital nomad life for about a year now, and let me tell you, it’s been quite the ride. It’s got all the perks I dreamed of – freedom, flexibility, and the ability to work from wherever I please. And let me say, it’s been pretty darn amazing overall. I’ve had the chance to explore new countries, meet some incredible people, and work from some seriously stunning locations.

But I’ll be real with you, lately, I’ve been feeling the burnout creeping in. The constant adjustments to new environments, juggling time zones, sorting out accommodation, and ensuring the Wi-Fi is up to par for work – it all starts to take a toll. It’s not just the work itself that’s tiring me out; it’s the mental strain of keeping all the moving parts in check that’s really getting to me. Even when I’m not working, my brain is still in this perpetual problem-solving mode 24/7.

Luckily, I recently had a stroke of financial luck – nothing major, but enough to allow me to slow down and stay put in one place for a couple of months. And let me tell you, it’s been a game-changer. Just being able to unpack my bags and not worry about the next move has been more refreshing than I could have imagined. But now, as I gear up to hit the road again, I’m on a quest to find that elusive balance.

So, for those seasoned digital nomads out there – how do you make this lifestyle sustainable? Do you have set routines, travel rules (like minimum stay lengths), or non-negotiable downtime built into your schedule? I’m all ears and would really appreciate any tips or personal strategies that have helped you maintain the joy of the journey while navigating the chaos that can sometimes come with it.

I’m all about keeping the magic alive in this lifestyle, but I’m also keen to avoid burning out to the point where I start resenting it. So, hit me up with your wisdom and let’s keep this nomad adventure rolling in the right direction!

Hey everyone, what’s up? So, I’ve been back for a couple of months now after spending almost a year overseas, and I thought I’d share some thoughts for those of you considering quitting your job. If you’re anything like me, you’ve probably spent way too much time scrolling through this sub, daydreaming about the freedom of being jobless, traveling the world, and living stress-free. I took the leap and left my finance job in the government sector after just a year because I felt the urge to explore the world while I’m still in my mid-20s. So, I saved up, got myself an Osprey backpack, a few packing cubes, some film stock, and booked a one-way flight to London.

Now, back to reality. Life post-adventure finds me pretty broke, unsurprisingly, and without a job. I did stash some savings away in a separate account, but luckily my parents are letting me crash at their place until I can secure employment. On the bright side, I’ve made some incredible memories and forged friendships with people from all corners of the globe, some of whom I know will remain friends for years to come. Plus, I’ve picked up valuable skills like adaptability and problem-solving that I doubt I would have developed without this journey. Would I do it all over again? Most likely.

Since January, I’ve been on the job hunt. With a one-year gap on my resume, minimal work experience, and a tough job market, I’ve essentially created a challenge for myself. But looking at the bigger picture, the enriching experiences I gained overseas outweigh the temporary setback of being unemployed. I’m hopeful that my time away will turn into a captivating story to share rather than a red flag on my CV.

Should you take the plunge too? Well, it depends on your circumstances. If you don’t have the safety net of crashing at a family member’s place like I do, you’ll need a substantial savings cushion for when you return. Also, consider your work experience. If, like me, you’re just starting out in your career, leaving your job might not be the wisest move given how challenging it could be to re-enter the workforce. But if you have solid work experience and are confident you can land a job upon your return, then absolutely go for it! Don’t hesitate, unless you have other significant responsibilities to consider.

Feel free to ask me anything about travel tips, budgeting

I recently went on an incredible solo trip to Vietnam and wanted to share my experience with you all. I had an action-packed itinerary, but I never felt rushed during my travels. Each day was filled with new discoveries and adventures, and I genuinely enjoyed every moment. If you’re considering a trip to Vietnam, I highly recommend it – it was truly amazing.

My journey began on April 2 when I flew out of London on a direct flight with Vietnam Airlines. Landing in Ho Chi Minh City on April 3, I took a taxi to the service apartment I had booked in Japan Town. While the area had a red-light district vibe, I never felt unsafe. The apartment wasn’t as nice as the pictures online, but it served its purpose, and I even made a furry friend with a lone cockroach. I explored the neighborhood, worked out in the gym, and treated myself to a relaxing massage. I also discovered melonpan at the local supermarket, which brought me immense joy.

The next day, I explored District 1, learning the art of crossing the chaotic streets with faith. I visited various landmarks like Ben Thanh market, Notre Dame Basilica, and the War Remnants Museum. A visit to the zoo left me wishing I hadn’t, but a food tour with XO Tours in the evening was a highlight, taking me beyond District 1 and introducing me to amazing local cuisine.

My adventures continued as I visited the Jade Emperor Pagoda, Tan Dinh market, and Phu Chau floating temple in Ho Chi Minh City. An evening tasting menu at Anan Saigon was good, and the relaxed ambiance made it worth it. A day trip to the Cu Chi tunnels and Mekong Delta introduced me to the life-changing coconut candy.

Flying to Da Nang on April 7 and heading straight to Hoi An, I indulged in my first egg coffee, which marked the beginning of my love affair with Vietnamese coffee. Staying at Maison Hai Homestay, I enjoyed a delightful food tour and a game of traditional Vietnamese bingo. The following day, I explored the old imperial city in Hue, with the tomb of the last king being a standout spot.

An early morning trip to My Son sanctuary and Marble Mountain on April 9 allowed me to beat the crowds and enjoy the stunning ruins. I relaxed in Hoi An in the afternoon, visiting a local gym and stocking up on coconut candy.

I recently got back from a whirlwind trip to the Gulf countries, including the UAE, Qatar, Kuwait, Bahrain, Saudi Arabia, and Oman. Can you believe I managed to explore all these countries in just nine days? It was a crazy adventure, with some hits and misses along the way. Let me break it down for you!

Starting off in the UAE, I found Dubai to be a bit underwhelming and artificial, with its focus on luxury shopping and tourist attractions that didn’t quite impress me. Climbing the Burj Khalifa was cool, but not as thrilling as I had hoped. However, Abu Dhabi was a different story – the Qasr Al Hosn and Grand Mosque were absolute highlights. The Grand Mosque, especially at sunset, was breathtaking, and the whole experience was unforgettable. Definitely worth a visit!

Next up was Qatar, where I spent half a day exploring Katara Village, the Corniche, Museum of Islamic Arts, and the Souq Waqif. While it was considered the most developed and modern among the Gulf countries, I found it a bit lackluster overall. The Souq Waqif was interesting, but I felt like I didn’t miss much by spending only a few hours there.

Surprisingly, Kuwait turned out to be a pleasant surprise. Despite hearing it was boring, I found the Mubaraikiya Old Market and Safat Square charming and authentic. The local vibe and delicious food made it a worthwhile stop, especially if you prefer a more genuine experience over flashy modernity.

In Saudi Arabia, I explored Jeddah and was pleasantly surprised by the vibrant atmosphere of Al Balad, the historic center. The city has opened up to tourism, and attractions like the Corniche and Al Taybat Science and History Museum offered unique insights into the country’s heritage. The Teamlab experience was a highlight, and I would recommend checking it out for a different perspective on art and technology.

Bahrain was a decent stop, with the fort and traditional Bahraini breakfast at Bab Al Bahrain being the standout experiences. It was better than Qatar, but not as memorable as some of the other countries I visited.

Now, let’s talk about Oman – the real showstopper of my trip. Oman completely stole my heart with its diverse attractions, from the Nizwa Souq and Fort to Jebel Shams, Wadi Shab, Bimmah Sinkhole, and the Ad Dimaniyat Islands.

So, let’s talk solo travel. There are some misconceptions out there that I think need clearing up. First off, the idea that you’re guaranteed to meet people while solo traveling? Not exactly true. Sure, it’s possible to strike up conversations and make friends along the way, but it’s not a given. Some folks prefer to keep to themselves, and not everyone is on the road to socialize. If you’re not a fan of hostels or hitting the bar scene solo, making connections can be a bit trickier.

Next up, the notion that solo travel is always a budget-friendly option. While it can be cost-effective in certain destinations like Southeast Asia, it’s not a one-size-fits-all scenario. When you’re flying solo, you’re footing the bill for everything yourself – accommodations, meals, transportation. Sure, you’re not splitting costs with a companion, but that doesn’t automatically make it cheaper. It all comes down to your travel style and where you choose to go.

Lastly, let’s address the romanticized idea of solo travel being a carefree adventure where everything falls perfectly into place. Reality check – travel mishaps happen. Bags get lost, scams occur, encounters with unsavory characters happen. Being in a foreign land by yourself, possibly not fluent in the local language, presents its own set of challenges. It’s not all rainbows and butterflies. Shoutout to travel channels like Wolters World for keeping it real and showing the highs and lows of exploring the world. Managing expectations is key, folks.

In conclusion, solo travel is not always what it’s cracked up to be. It’s not a guaranteed social extravaganza, it’s not always a money-saver, and it’s definitely not a flawless fairy tale. But hey, that doesn’t mean it’s not worth it. Embrace the uncertainties, learn from the mishaps, and savor the victories. Solo travel is a mixed bag, but it’s all part of the journey. Time to pack your bags and hit the road – just remember to keep it real.

So, here’s the deal – I’ve been getting all hyped and saving up for my first big solo trip, and in the meantime, I’ve been following some content creators who are in my age group. But let me tell you, it’s been a bit of a rollercoaster. These three girls I’ve been keeping tabs on have been traveling since they were practically babies – okay, maybe not that young, but you get the idea. And of course, everyone’s curious about how they’re funding these jet-setting adventures. The usual story goes like this: they saved up some cash and now they’re raking it in online, mainly through TikTok.

Now, there’s this one girl from Austria who caught my eye. She doesn’t have access to the Creators Fund, so she claims she’s making money through “photography” while she’s out on the road. I mean, seriously, how lucrative is photography when you’re bouncing around different countries? Oh, and get this – before she started trotting the globe, her original plan was to study at NYU. That right there tells you something about the kind of financial backing she’s got. But here’s the kicker – every time these girls head back home, it’s to a fancy house. The Austrian girl, for instance, decided to jet back because she “missed her horses.” I mean, come on now, how self-sufficient can you really be if you’re living it up like that?

As I kept following their adventures, especially the Austrian girl who isn’t pulling in cash from TikTok, yet somehow manages to afford trips to places like Papua New Guinea, it all started to feel a bit off. It’s like, are they really as relatable as they make themselves out to be? Let’s face it – being able to work and save every penny to fund your travels is a privilege in itself. The only solo travel creators who seem to be genuinely self-sufficient are the ones who are 24 and up and are upfront about having a remote job or a legit business or have a massive following on social media.

I can’t be the only one who’s noticed this, right? It’s like, are these young travelers really out there hustling on their own, or are they getting a little boost from somewhere else? And let’s be clear – I’m not talking about those YouTubers who roll out polished videos with insane experiences and food tours.

Travelling can be stressful enough without having to worry about being excluded from certain accommodation options. As someone who has recently been planning a trip to Asia, I can sympathize with the frustration of searching for a place to stay, only to find out it’s female-only. It’s even more annoying when the listing fails to mention this in prominent writing, instead burying the information in small print.

No matter if you’re a man or woman, this experience is a huge inconvenience. On one hand, there’s nothing wrong with female-only accommodation, but on the other, it’s frustrating that there’s no way to filter out such options from your search results. Hostelworld used to offer this, but it seems to have since been discontinued. It’s a shame, as the ability to filter out female-only accommodation would save travelers a lot of time.

Unfortunately, it seems that booking platforms aren’t prioritizing the addition of this feature. It’s understandable to a certain extent, as it’s only a minor annoyance to read the small print. Nevertheless, for those who are already dealing with the stress of planning a trip, it’s still a huge frustration.

The situation is even worse for those who experience the opposite problem — finding a well-reviewed, well-priced place, only to discover that it’s male-only. This issue is less commonly known, but it isn’t uncommon in certain parts of the world.

It’s hard to say why exactly booking platforms haven’t implemented the option to filter out female-only or male-only accommodation. It may have to do with legal issues, or the fact that it’s not seen as a priority. Either way, it’s an issue that could easily be solved with the addition of a filter.

At the end of the day, no one should have to deal with the frustration of searching for accommodation and being excluded from options due to their gender. It’s an issue that could easily be solved with the addition of a filter, so hopefully booking platforms will take notice and make the necessary changes.

Travelling abroad can be a challenge, no matter where you’re heading, especially when you’re crossing an ocean. I’m tall and large, so no matter what I do I’m going to be uncomfortable, so I’ve given up on trying to make the long transatlantic flight more comfortable and just assume that it’s going to suck and prepare to suffer. But, after that flight, I can enjoy stepping into the “heaven” of the airport.

I used to book upgraded seats in advance, but I’ve stopped doing that and just accept that I’ll be miserable for 10 hours. That’s when the silver lining appears; I’ve found that once I resign myself to suffering, the suffering isn’t so bad; it almost becomes a game. I can enjoy the food on KLM flights, for example, and then, after I land, I can finally stretch my legs and walk around. I need 36 hours or so of recuperation after that long flight, but it’s totally worth it.

Travelling long distances is a challenge no matter where you’re from. Australians, New Zealanders, and North Americans all travel long distances and have to suffer a bit. For North Americans, it’s usually a transatlantic flight, while Australians and New Zealanders typically travel to Southeast Asia and have long flights to get there. A New Zealander here shared their experience of Berlin to Vietnam, then Vietnam to Auckland, and finally Auckland to Wellington. By the end of that long haul, their feet were swollen and their urine was amber. No matter where you’re from, long-distance travel can be tough. But, if you resign yourself to the suffering, it can be an enjoyable experience.

We often take for granted the privileges we have in the developed world, not realizing the realities of those living in less fortunate environments. From Tanzania to Ethiopia, Guatemala to the Middle East, there are stories of misfortune and sorrow that remind us of how much we are truly blessed.

In Tanzania, for example, the lack of financial resources means that hospitals are often unable to purchase basic medications. This can have dire consequences, leading to people dying from easily preventable illnesses. I recently spoke to a doctor who told me how he often has to buy medications himself, using his own money, in order to save the lives of his patients. His despair was palpable, as he told me how he was considering quitting his job, unable to cope with the heartbreak of watching people die unnecessarily.

The situation in Ethiopia is no better. On a recent bus journey through the country, I witnessed a mother and her two children drinking directly from a roadside puddle as it rained. Unpaved roads and other infrastructure issues are just a few of the many problems that hinder the country’s development.

A similar situation prevails in the hills of Guatemala. People here live off of corn tortillas and reside in homes with poor ventilation and no smoke extractors. This means that, by the time they reach adulthood, they have the lungs of a two-pack-a-day smoker.

These stories of hardship and despair are a reminder of how truly privileged we are in the developed world. We often forget that, while we may have our own problems, we should be thankful for the abundance of resources available to us. For those of us that have ventured outside of our comfort zone, these stories will stay with us forever.