Hey there, I’m a 26-year-old female who absolutely loves going on solo trips. In the past three years, I’ve embarked on about five solo adventures, and let me tell you, it’s been an absolute game-changer for me. It’s the first time in my life that I’ve truly felt comfortable being on my own, and I have to say, I really relish my solo time.
One of the things I adore about solo travel is the freedom it offers. When I’m on a trip by myself, I get to do things exactly as I please. Whether it’s exploring hidden gems or simply sitting in a cafe people-watching, I get to call all the shots. I find that being alone allows me to fully immerse myself in the surroundings and appreciate the beauty of every moment.
Another aspect of solo travel that I enjoy is the opportunity to meet new people, particularly in hostels. Despite being labeled as shy and reserved, I surprisingly find it easy to strike up conversations with fellow travelers. It’s refreshing to interact with like-minded individuals who share a passion for exploration and adventure.
Recently, I went on a vacation with my boyfriend, and it was fantastic. However, I had already planned a solo trip for November, way before we met. Initially, I was thinking of heading to Thailand, but now I’m considering exploring Patagonia in Argentina/Chile. While my boyfriend has the flexibility to join me on this trip due to his ample vacation time and love for travel, he seems puzzled by my desire to travel solo.
He supports my decision to go alone, but he doesn’t quite grasp the appeal. He seems to think that I’m chasing thrills or seeking out new connections. I can’t help but question whether my desire for solo travel is selfish or unreasonable. To add to the mix, most people we know back in Canada share his sentiments and fail to comprehend why I would choose to venture out on my own.
So, here I am, torn between my passion for solo travel and the expectations of others. I’d love to hear your thoughts on this! Oh, and just to give you a heads up, this solo trip is going to be a 12-day adventure.