the city, but it’s nothing like Bangkok or Pattaya. Ho Chi Minh City has a few seedy places, but you rarely see western men in those areas. Cambodia is a bit of a wildcard, but overall the nightlife is not as pervasive as in Bangkok or Pattaya.
Southeast Asia is a vibrant and diverse region. Although there are some seedy areas in certain cities, the nightlife and activities available to visitors are not as pervasive as some may imagine. I’ve been living and working around Southeast Asia for 15 years and have gotten to know many expats and locals. I’m all too familiar with the myths and rumors surrounding the various areas, but I can assure you that a lot of it is outdated, exaggerated, or simply imagined.
Thailand is by far the most popular destination in Southeast Asia and it has the most developed shady nightlife industry. Bangkok and Pattaya are the sites of most of the seedy activities, but it’s important to note that these activities are mostly located in particular areas. If you avoid these areas, you won’t see any of it. I’ve taken my Filipina girlfriend to Thailand several times and we’ve never had any bad experiences. We’ve never witnessed any rude behavior by western men.
The Philippines has a few seedy bars and nightlife areas in Makati and other parts of the city, but it’s nothing compared to Bangkok or Pattaya. Ho Chi Minh City has some seedy places, but you’re unlikely to encounter western men in these areas. Cambodia is a bit of a wildcard, but overall the nightlife is not as pervasive as in Bangkok or Pattaya.
To sum it up, Southeast Asia is a wonderful and unique destination. Although there are some seedy areas in certain cities, the activities available to visitors are not as pervasive as some may imagine. If you’re looking for a safe and enjoyable experience, you can have it. Just be mindful of the areas to avoid and you’ll be sure to have a great time.