Why Are Solo Female Travelers Targeted in Customs Screening?

I’m sharing my experience because I’m curious about why I got sent to secondary screening while traveling solo. So, here’s the deal – I’m a 31-year-old female, landed in New York from Germany with my Austrian passport, and planned to chill for six weeks. But the minute I grabbed my luggage, a customs officer swooped in, asked for my passport, gave it a once-over, and then dropped the bomb – time for secondary screening.

I shuffled along as instructed, and that’s when the grilling began. The officer fired off questions faster than a machine gun while rummaging through my stuff. What really grabbed my attention was his weird obsession with the fact that I was flying solo. He kept harping on about how it’s not the norm for lone rangers like me to show up, insisting that most folks come in pairs. Like, dude, I get it. I was just one person, not a whole squad.

Now, here’s the kicker – he never mentioned it being a random check, nor did he bother to explain why I was getting the VIP treatment. The whole time, I couldn’t shake this memory of a TikTok I once watched. It went on about customs officers eyeballing single female travelers because they might be mistaken for, uh, ladies of the night. Yeah, you read that right – the oldest profession in the world.

So, if you’re a solo jet-setter like me, I wanna hear your stories. Ever been pulled into the hot seat like this? Or maybe you’ve noticed a pattern? Let’s spill the tea on what goes down when you’re flying solo.